My hubby is sweet and loving and he takes care of us but when he comes home from work he plays video…

My hubby is sweet and loving and he takes care of us but when he comes home from work he plays video games or wants to have sex. If we aren't having sex he's playing games.. I just feel like I'm an object to him but I know he loves me. I know his love language is all ass grabs and screwing but mine is romance and sweet gestures. I just had our second baby 6 weeks ago and I don't have a huge sex drive and he knows that but he still pushes it. I just don't know how to not get mad.