is it bad that I want my baby to have mine and his father last name? Know me and my SO are fussing over his name because he doesn't like his first name. When I been calling him Ishme-El through my whole pregnancy. He thinks just because he is a boy he has the right to name him which isn't fair.
Maybe make a long list of names you like and he can choose from that list?
your right @godsjoi but I've been telling him think of something and he didn't come up with anything. and @sharonpaige13 lol I wanna do that but I don't want him to dislike me because I did that or not like his son because his name isn't what he wants.
I think because the child is a piece of both of you, you both should agree on a name. I couldn't choose a name that my husband really didn't like, but that's just me lol.
Your the one that writes the name for his birth certificate lol my SO wanted our son to have a completely different name...he wanted David and I wrote down Grayson lol
You're carrying him, so you have the right to name him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
I really don’t want to name my son Rodrigo. The only reason i am naming him that is because he would be the 4th Generation and I’d feel like a total B**** if i don’t:(. My husband wanted him named after him at first but now that he sees i really don’t like it he said its ok to name him something else. But to be honest his family would probably get upset. 😩
Since my husband's a SAHD am I going to have to pay him if I kick him out of our house? It's our house because it's in both of our names, but all of the bills are paid by me and in my name. He's telling me I can't kick him out because he has no car or money to start off on his own. And he's also saying he will take the title to my car if I kick him out because he sold his car to buy me mine. Which I don't believe anyone cares about because this car is in my name, I don't think anyone cares who g...
@khaliawhite165, he doesn't dislike me he actually is very fond of the name now lol just took him to getting use too and he really likes it now