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Khalia Gadson
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is it bad that I want my baby to have mine and his father last name? Know me and my SO are fussing over his name because…

is it bad that I want my baby to have mine and his father last name? Know me and my SO are fussing over his name because he doesn't like his first name. When I been calling him Ishme-El through my whole pregnancy. He thinks just because he is a boy he has the right to name him which isn't fair.

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына-младенца

@khaliawhite165, he doesn't dislike me he actually is very fond of the name now lol just took him to getting use too and he really likes it now

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godsjoi

JoieМама дочки (4 года), беременна (36 нед.)

Maybe make a long list of names you like and he can choose from that list?

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khaliawhite165

Khalia GadsonМама сына-младенца

your right @godsjoi but I've been telling him think of something and he didn't come up with anything. and @sharonpaige13 lol I wanna do that but I don't want him to dislike me because I did that or not like his son because his name isn't what he wants.

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godsjoi

JoieМама дочки (4 года), беременна (36 нед.)

I think because the child is a piece of both of you, you both should agree on a name. I couldn't choose a name that my husband really didn't like, but that's just me lol.

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына-младенца

Your the one that writes the name for his birth certificate lol my SO wanted our son to have a completely different name...he wanted David and I wrote down Grayson lol

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ainsleighsmumma

Ashlynn SloanВ ожидании первенца

You're carrying him, so you have the right to name him.

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