My little girl was born thursday. we found out that she has a deformity in her anus that requires reconstructive surgery when she becomes 3 months if she catches a infection they have to send her for surgery quicker than that. When people come over we explain the situation and why she is not to be held or have you in her face yet half of them still manage to leave my house pissed off because I'm trying to keep my little girl safe. If they cared as much about her as they say they would understand we are trying to get through this rather than being pissed that they couldn't touch the new baby