so.. my fiance and I want to have another child. and have been not really trying but not doing anything to prevent it. but I'm afraid of peoples judgement and our families looking down on us.. an I really don't want to get the "this is a huge mistake" speech again...
@theeonlyjeni, mine and my husband first baby was totally not planned but far from a mistake. we planned for our second didnt tell anyone till we were pregnant. dont listen to what people say its your life no one elses
@theeonlyjeni, i understand that. my hubby and i want to try for a girl before he leaves for the military but i feel everyone is going to pass judgement because i just had my second baby in march. but im trying to just focus on what we want as a family and if people cant except that then too bad. its not their life. ♡
Me and my guy are fast moving people. We don't tell people a lot because of the judgement. My mom is probably the most understanding of everyone, and a couple friends. Everyone else thinks we're crazy, so I totally get it.