If I say I don't want visitors at the hospital, that's what I mean! I'm not talking about our…

you had the babies already??

definitely on your side mama, that happened to me with my first born everyone and their mothers were in my room I had a c-section and could barely stay awake while recovering let alone I barely even got to enjoy my daughter. so the next time I made damn sure to let my family and friends and my husband's know that no one aside from our families were to visit but only once my husband gave the "okay" text

@keeganmommy, no, I'll have them next Monday, on the 22nd. But she was telling all these people to come up there & was lowkey saying it's stupid to not allow them to come to the hospital. But little does she know ain't nobody seeing them until they get their shots! 😊 People are nasty & I don't like people anyways, people annoy me after so long. 😒

@mommabee37, and I'm having a c section & the hospital told me the nurses come in every hour to check on you after the procedure. My boyfriend doesn't care, he just wants me to be comfortable so he'll kick them out if he has to, it's just annoying to have to argue & explain to people why you want to do something with your kids. 😒 I'm losing my patience for it.

it really is annoying and yes the nurses are constantly in there you'll probably not be able to rest and if you have a sea of people in and out it makes it worse I had to tell my own mother for a whole month that I was dead serious about no one visiting until we say so she didn't like it but ultimately everyone granted my wishes when my son was born last year hopefully the same happens again next month when I have my 3rd @dang_dridri

OOOOOO sounds like me and my MIL. Got worse after I had the baby.

@cassandrareyna14, girl I feel like we're not going to get along anymore. Lol @mommabee37 that's what I'm saying! And my boyfriend is coming down here just for their birth & he needs to spend time with them before he has to go back to school. I'm just not up to deal with it.

@dang_dridri, im having a c section Thursday and was told I can't have visitors for the first hour after because of recovery and the nurse is constantly in there. Where I'm delivering is a locked birth place so they can only get in if I say ok 😁😁 they have to ring a door bell, ask nurses, they'll ask me & then either let them in or not.

@mommabee37, @dang_dridri I feel yall on that lucky I'm in Texas and I'm from sc so nobody will be able to see him except the people I tell that he is here I have friends and stuff here but I only feel close enough for a couple of them to see him when he gets here

You most likely won't lmao! I know we don't. She feels entitled to time with my kid & im like nope, you aren't you're just a grandparent. No actual parenting rights sorry.

you can tell the hospital the people you only want to visit you . that's what I did...lots of my family friends tried it come in And they wouldn't let them be

@karstenal, yeah after I have them no one can see them for the first 4 hours anyways & ours is locked as well. They have to call the nurses station to get in & all this other stuff. @keeganmommy girl my hospital is like an hour away from everyone but i guess that's not far enough to keep them away. Lmao. @cassandrareyna14 RIGHT! So annoying. 🙄

@jamie_and_donovan, I already gave them my list of people I want there. I just don't want her thinking she can do whatever because she's the grandmother. You know? She's that type.

yea that is a little a annoying!

I am doing the same thing. I have already gone over the rules with my husband and my mom. I don't want a Crap load of people in there. One of my rules is unless you have my other 3 kids with you, you get one visit a day for one hour. And if I'm asleep or feeding the baby your ass better sit in the hallway.

@hbell, seriously though! And I know I'm going to be stressed & tired because of the surgery & trying to adjust to having two babies & everything else.

talk to your nurses. they can take care of all that so you don't have to. they will always go with your wishes when it comes to visitors