I feel like a shitty mom. I didn't get the go out ect kinda life. I'll be 21 on the 23rd an I feel…

party life is over rated u didnt miss anything lol .... and you can still go out a little

@babygirl10-11, ya just the fiancé had his bar days before I haven't yet

it's not always about partying.

You can still party. You just have a better reason to go home 😍

@spudssmommie, that's how I was now friend had her 21st stopped by to say hi for an hour an wanted to leave. Like I'm not much of a party girl. I just never got to go out much I've always been a home body.

@ktwins188, yes Ik. I'm not much of a party girl. I just never got to really go out. I've always been a home body. Never invited places ect.

@ang20, I'll get a wild hair every once in a while but me too for the most part

well why don't you just got out have your mom or your husband mom watch your baby. it doesn't mean since your a mom u can't have a good time

@spudssmommie, yeah. Lol

@ktwins188, yeah. My mommy inside is like you need a break but than I feel bad cause I won't be with her.

but you will after words have a good time because u will stress slot

Going out is overrated. you'll still be able to go once in a while too, once she's a little older you'll probably feel better about leaving her with someone. it's always going to be in the back of your mind though that you can't get too fucked up to where if something happens you can't deal with it.

alot

you're allowed to go out have some fun but not too much fun on your birthday lol

@alainalovesmommy, lol yeah. We plan on seeing if her grandpa wanted to have that sleepover that weekend. (His dad said he'd like one with her) so we figured we'd ask him