argh these baby blues are crap!! on top of the pain making me feel low ive got everyone sending me…
argh these baby blues are crap!! on top of the pain making me feel low ive got everyone sending me to bed to 'have a few hours' sleep to myself and they will watch finlay, ive said no as hes my baby and i just want him close to me, i dont care if im tired and sore and need my rest hes my son and all the sleepless nights etc are worth it, i also have to share a room with OH sister and neice tonight which i dont want to as i know SIL will interfere through the night and i like my privacy and i want to be close to OH which hes sleeping downstairs , currently sat in the bedroom crying my eyes out as finlay is downstairs , im feeling sore,unwell and run down, OH wont let me stay with him downstairs as he says i need proper rest in a bed , why does no one listen to me? i wanna go home😢😠😠😢😢😢😢
Stacey Marie·
That's annoying! Just say you want to have your own space with the baby. Are you far away from home? Its hard to adjust in the first few weeks and it's best people leave you to it. Xx
danielle allen·
Мама сына-младенца
yeah im an hour away from homr we come dowm for my OHS grandads funeral , its like i cant get on with it myself and i cant do anythung myself its so annoying , OHS sister was awake nearly all night whenever fimlay made a noise or cried amd even when i was cuddlimg him early.hours to get him back to sleep she was watching me xx @stacey804
Stacey Marie·
That's shocking. God I feel for you because I know I'd be so uncomfortable and just wanting to be home. Its your time to settle and find your feet with a new baby not have people breathing over you xx
danielle allen·
Мама сына-младенца
i just wanna be home, im sick of everyone taking him, i woke up this morning and she'd taken him downstairs and said it was 'to let me have a lie in' not that i slept mind you as it frightened the life out of me, everyone keeps wanting to hold him,feed him,change him etc and im telling them no but no ones listening, my OH's neice keeps asking every 5 miniutes can she hold him im saying no as shes only 5 and i caught her earlier trying to force a dummy into his mouth when he didnt even want it he was fast asleep , really annoyed me so i told OH that no one is having him from now on xx @stacey804
Stacey Marie·
That's uncalled for! How dare she. Omg it sounds ridiculous. How much longer do you have to stay there? Xx
danielle allen·
Мама сына-младенца
were going home early in the morning thank god, i cant wait, it does my head in too because everyone constantly picks him up i cant have my own cuddle time then as its going to make him spoilt and hes gunna wanna be held all the time, when i do cuddle him everyone moans saying i hold him to much😢 i cried lastnight because i just wanted to cuddle my little boy xx @stacey804
Stacey Marie·
I don't know how you are biting your tongue. I would have told them. Its your baby and so what if you spoil him with cuddles, your his mother. My health visitor said there's no such thing as a spoiling with cuddles and love. Xx