need advice ladies, was your every bit of your lady bits sore after having your baby's? mine is…

I felt like this for weeks after and I thought it was normal but turns out I had an infection in my stitches. Might be worth a trip to the GP or midwife xx

ok thankyou, i didnt have stitches but will go to doctors xx @kmcf2302

Yep nothing I done helped it either apart form wearing ice packs in my knickers and bringing a really soft pillow with me everywhere to sit on! Xx

how long did it last, its doing my head in😢 xx @holliesinead

Errrr I say by day 10 I was feeling much better!! Like I wasn't bleeding or I was stopping I could sit down without having to do it slowly by defo by week 3 I was back to normal tbh I think I would have recovered sooner but I was donut and done to much I cleaned the day we got home and went out to vist family then by day 4 I was out shopping I think had I relaxed I wouldn't of been in so much pain or taken as long to heal so just relax I wish I did more xx

thats my issue then, the day we come home i was cleaning, the first 2 days we had visitors and then by day 3 i went to familys house and its now day 7 and ive been shopping 3 times this week, been walking everywhere so no i think i need to take some time to rest tbh as im so sore like everywhere i feel like crying 😢😢 xx @holliesinead

You defo just need to rest Hun I thought I was super woman and could do everything I think I felt like I had a point to prove that I was fine when really I wasn't I sore and felt like chopped liver I never really done the whole relaxing stage even now 8 weeks later I've had about 3 lazy days since having him I feel the need to be going out everyday and making the most of my time off I feel slobbish if I sit do nothing and I bet you feeling the same hence why your not relaxing but take it from me Hun just do it for a week at least you'll poor noonoo will thank you in the long run xxx

i will do thanks hun, i think im going to have to rest , yeah i did feel the same i also feel lazy if i just sit around and do nothing but i think thats whats going yo havr to be done , thanks chick xx @holliesinead