I know my boyfriends mom is really expecting us to let her be involved in the birth but i refuse to…
I know my boyfriends mom is really expecting us to let her be involved in the birth but i refuse to let it happen like that. especially since when we first found out i was expecting she went around and told EVERYBODY without our permission crying about how she was going to be a grandma and how we were selfish for doing this to her because shes so young. (shes 40, my mom was 35 when i had my son). She refuses to be called grandma, she wants to be called "rah rah" because thats when he friends daughter calls her... its your granddaughter not your friends kid. Then she had the audacity to ask me to take any extras of anything that i get for her to her house so she has stuff for her there... like did you buy any of it? no. do you even have time to see your family? no. and we dont have any extra anything. not to mention shes the type of person that makes everything about her. so i know if i did let her at the hospital i would be pushed to the side while shes texting everyone and calling everyone with updates when i wanted it just to be me and my boyfriend. everyone can wait for details and pictures til we decide we want to show her off... sorry for the rant. just annoyed.
emily·
Мама сына-младенца
That is REALLY annoying. I would probably order a hit on that woman if I was in your situation 😂
emily·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm sorry though, really. I wanted it to be just my boyfriend and I at the hospital when my baby was born too and that's how we had it. I mean it was an intimate experience making the baby so I wanted it to be an intimate experience having him too. When my boyfriends dad found out I was pregnant (on accident I might add) he called my boyfriends mom (they're divorced) and told her and then everyone knew. So I understand that feeling. Just breathe! Haha
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (37 нед.)
i just hate how shes turning all of it on her like ooh look whats happening to me. even though she didnt raise her own kids. they were constantly going to their grandmas for months at a time then from babysitter to babysitter. and you have to tip toe around her. like shes the type of person that will cry to get her way. like my biggest fear is her dragging my boyfriend away from me during labor. with my son i had a really big support group but now my mom lives in iowa and does not plan on being in michigan for her birth therefore i want it just to be me and him. @emkasting
Karen·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
That's how I wanted, I feel bad for my mom and older sister they always wanted to be there but my first came unexpected 3 months earlier in an emergency c section where they put me to sleep not even my husband was there. And everyone got to see my daughter in the NICU first, I got to see her the next day. So for this one I kind of just want it to be only me and my husband.
And I'm stuck because for the weeks my baby is born my mom wants to keep my 18 month daughter and so does my mother in law, I know I won't enjoy my baby dealing with someone mad over my daughter.