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Rikki
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I feel so bad. my bf has really bad anxiety when it comes to money and I have no way to help him. we…

I feel so bad. my bf has really bad anxiety when it comes to money and I have no way to help him. we both have good careers and are never in need of anything. I can't tell him not to worry because that just makes it worse.... we are supposed to go on a nice little vacation to NYC for my baby shower in a few weeks and I don't want the whole thing spent worrying. any advice?

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s_r_z_15

Lindsey Zastoupil

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Plan ahead. Alott a budget for each thing. Like, how much you're willing to pay for a hotel if you don't have a place to stay for the duration. Certain amounts for meals and which places would be a go-to, which places are not a go-to. Etc. Maybe that might help. I do that anytime I go somewhere where I know I'll be limited with money for the duration but want to spend something.

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nightdaughter

Rikki

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we are staying with his mother in a guest bedroom, meals are all included and they are taking us out for dinners. I would understand if we actually had to spend money but in all honesty the only thing we need is $50 for gas. @s_r_z_15

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s_r_z_15

Lindsey Zastoupil

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At least that takes the strain of paying out of the equation. Lol. But if he's a worrier, he'll worry. I don't really think there's anything you can do other than make sure he enjoys himself and has a good time. Keep him busy so he won't have time to worry.

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