WARNING CONTENT MAY NOT BE SUITABLE FOR ALL VIEWERS!!!! When your 26w pregnant and your mom tells…

I'm so sorry that happened to you

that's sad... I hate to hear when mothers do that... I had a friend her dad use to rape her almost every night .. her "real" dad 😖 and she ended up telling her mom ...the mom started to cuss her and calling her out her name ..all kinds of ugly bitches and slits ...And mind u this girl is absolutely beautiful ...smh so long story short mom is still with the dad today and of course she has no relationship with neither one... oh and mind u the dad admitted that he had been doing so and apologize to her sobbing and crying saying he was on drugs and so on 😖😵 @desiraeriley

And mind u we are 30 now so she hasn't spoken with them in a long time ...

My mom did that last year, and dead to ber i will remain...there is no coming back from that in my eyes. Ive gone years without speaking to her so no biggie....If that's how she feels u just make sure you never give her the satisfaction of needing her.

My stepfather admitted it also did I ever hear a I'm sorry from my mom after she told my whole family I lied because I was jealous of my unborn sister? No! That is fine I know I have a place in heaven. Them I'm not sure @vicky810 @keeganmommy What doesnt kill you makes you stronger bet that!

@kandice_stedman86, I told her dont expect me to come crawling back because if anything she should be ashamed of herself for everything. Proud of you for standing your ground

ughh that pisses me completely off I'm to sorry u had to go through that I just believe a mom couldn't go against her kid like that smdh just to keep a piece of shit man in the house ...smmfh @desiraeriley

@desiraeriley, I am glad you are stronger and I am glad that you can protect your child from that sort of thing... but I know it has got to hurt to have the person who gave birth to you take the side of the person who hurt you and admitted to hurting you

my mom and I didn't have a good relationship, haven't seen her in 15yrs, talk her and there always ended the same.. in a nasty horrible fight. told her she was dead to me she said the same and never talked to her again. she fell ill and died last month. I wish I forgave her, not for her but for myself because now I have to live with it the rest of my life. it's hard to carry that hate weight on your back. I'll be taking it to the grave with me. so I suggest you ladies try to find a way to forgive. doesn't mean you need a relationship with het. but forgive for your own sake. I feel like I wrote this post, my mother was a bad mom. she reminded me of the mom in the book "A child called IT" best wishes for all yall.

@desiraeriley, @kandice_stedman86

@dawnrose, I'm sorry for the loss of your mom and I have no choice but to forgive her but that does not mean I have to repeatedly allow her to verbally mentally and emotionally attack me at every chance. If we die at odds it will be at no fault of mine. I hope you understand

@keeganmommy, It did hurt for a long time but what hurts more now has nothing to do with him it's her. She is spiteful and blamed me for what happened. I asked her ok you tell me how a 9yr old asked to be Damn near raped for 9 months! She had no answer and clearly doesn't care.

@desiraeriley, it was not your fault that he was a sick man cause only a sick man would touch a 9 year old... my mom has been single for almost 19 years now after her and my dad split simply because she didn't want anything to happen to us one time she had a male friend and he baby sat us one day and we had a two story house I was in my bed asleep and he came and woke me up he touched my leg to shake me then he said come on I'm taking yall to your mom she called for yall so I got up when I saw my mom I was talking to her and she asked why I looked so tired and I told her that i was sleeping before we left the house she said who woke you up and I told her he did she said how did he wake you and I told her and she slammed on brakes then continued driving the rest of the ride was quiet we got to my aunt house and I hear her in the room with my aunt the yelling about how he said he called my name from the steps and I told her he touched my leg she was like that's my baby and if he did anything to her I'm going to jail so next thing I know my aunt calls me in the room and ask me questions not forcing me to say anything and not making me feel the need to hype my mom up more but she made me demonstrate the whole thing to her it was a very innocent touch but my mama was angry and she never ever left us alone with any man ever again she was not having her theory was "people crazy and my kids come first" I blamed myself for my mom being lonely but since I been pregnant I completely understand her instinct to protect her children keegan isn't here yet but I'm already extremely protective.... I can't imagine what it must have been like for you but I know it was scary

@dawnrose, I forgave mine a long long time ago, it was even apart of my therapy about 6 years ago. I didnt forgive her for her but for me...I just refuse to let someone into my life repeatedly who does the same thing, at some point you have to love urself more. Honestly if she were to pass tomorrow I have no regrets bc I know I did the best I could. I think @desiraeriley is just going thru the start of that process.