I will make my child's fathers life a living hell if he doesn't step up and take on being a father!…

Don't waste the energy. If he's not worthy, step up and be even better than you already are. ❤ The time you spend worrying and hating him will be much better applied by making sure your little king has everything he needs. The courts can compel support payments BUT not love. Do you really want someone around who doesn't love and treasure little one?

Exactly what I'm saying. If he don't want to love him or take care of him then screw him! He has his mommy and my entire family who already love him more than words! And I will take him to court because he will help me financially. He has a really great job and I don't and I'm sick on top of it. So I will get his money. If not I'll still work and do what I have too to provide and give my child the world! @Tayek

@missjess, THERE YA GO! Let the COURT make him hurt. You keep your heart and spirit clear, take the high road.

well u cant force himto be the father he should be.. This is the mistake most women make!! If he dont wanna be involved then maybe its better that way! That child deserves much better than a half ass dad! Get his ass on child support n leave it at that.. The father of my 2 older children was in denial about being the father from the start. I knew he was.. So i got him on child support.. Took 10 years for them to finally get his ass!!! He eitha wasnt workin or was gettn paid under the table. But i told him this would happen. He didnt believe me.. After a couple years of finally payin all his back pay he requested a dna test.. smfh.. Like i already knew. He WAS the father... All for nothin tho cuz he has not tried to contact me to see his kids.. My oldest is 12 and the other is 9.. Its hard on um cuz their at that age where they askin alot of questions.. And i keep it real wit them.. Their dad aint shit.. And were all better off without his ass.. u got mommy! 👊 DO NOT WASTE TIME OR ENERGY ON A DEADBEAT!!!!

It's just hard seeing him out his daughters on such a high pedestal and he's acted like he could give 2 flying fucks about my baby boy the whole time I've been pregnant. And he's done nothing but make me sad and depressed and hurt the whole time too! I will take his ass to court! He will pay me. He don't want to be a daddy to his son fine he's better off with our him! He has his mommy and my whole family. He is very loved!! @forevablessedx6