I cant stand people who get repeated help with there finances every single time they cry to there…

I cant stand people who get repeated help with there finances every single time they cry to there parents and then look at me because im not doing "the best " i can. First of all. Your cry to your mom and she pays your car insurance and half the rent for your sorry ass. I struggle and pay all the bills with the help of my boyfriend. We might still live with his mom and dad. But at least i say i bought the shit with my own money. I pay my phone bill and car insurance. Shit i might not have rent to pay. But damn. Do be saying shit when you cant do it on your own.😑