I'm sorry if this is an unpopular opinion but I just can't keep it to myself anymore. Lately I've…

I'm sorry if this is an unpopular opinion but I just can't keep it to myself anymore.

Lately I've seen a lot of posts about how pregnant women "shouldn't complain" because "other women can't experience what pregnancy is like".

I don't think that's fair though. Don't get me wrong. I feel for the ladies trying to conceive and for the mommas who lost their angels too early. I understand that's it's frustrating for those ladies to see other mommas pregnant. But it's also frustrating being pregnant. It's not all fun and games. We all know that. But just because we complain about our swollen feet or our restless nights doesn't mean we take our babies for granted. We understand how big of a blessing they are. We understand that it could've been us that had a miscarriage. We know our babies are worth every pain we feel. Just because we come on here and complain a little doesn't mean we don't appreciate what was given to us... But that's just me. I don't like being told I can't complain about being tired or about having a swollen vagina because someone has it worse than me. I feel for those mommas. But y'all have to feel for us too. We have to bring each other up. Give advice on what can help not tell people to suck it up.