Why do people have to remind me that MY son's birthday is coming up? Don't you think I know this!…

Why do people have to remind me that MY son's birthday is coming up? Don't you think I know this! Omg I'm not stupid, I know his birthday is coming don't have to remind me 🙄 every time they ask me what his birthday is I get "oh girl his birthday is coming up" yesssss duhhhhh I don't wanna be reminded of that 😫 I am not ready for my baby to be 1... 💔