Why do people want to stress me out the day before my c-section? My stepmom is excited about the baby, and I get it, but…

Tell ur nurse you arent ready for visitors. I already warned my family and so did my husband that no one is to be there and that our son will be the first to meet his sister before anyone else

@deannapooley, I had already told her and everyone else that I need to be in my room and done with recovery before anyone comes in. The problem is that she will have my sons so for them to come in, she will be with them. :/

@liveitwithlove, ughhhhh......id be like can u go to cafe or something so i can spend time with my kids 😂😂 im so blunt lmao i cant stand my mom or my husbands dad or his step mom so i have my husbands cousin watching my son and the grandparents are all butthurt because she will see my daughter before they get to....but they are soo annoying can u blame me lmao

I mainly want to get that first bonding time. When my third son was born we had so many visitors in the room before I was even able to go back for the c-section. I'm not doing that this time. Just me and my husband before hand. And I want to get in a room and settled before people come and start handling her. But that's too hard for some people to comprehend! @deannapooley

you can tell the nurses that you want a few hours a day with quiet bonding alone time with your baby. they will make sure no one bothers you unless necessary.

@liveitwithlove, I understand completely with my son (my first born) i had my husband mom and father in law and it was nothing but bullshit i told my husband our next one (which ill be c sectioned Monday) and i told out families no one before my son at first people were mad but oh well and my husband already knows that no one comes threw that door unless its our son first