My husband had the day off yesterday and since we stayed home all weekend together the house is a disaster today.. I'm trying to get it all clean but I'm feeling nauseous and my back is killing me so I keep having to take breaks. I don't understand how he gets the house SOOO messy. 🙄
Exactly ! @lucyyxoxo_ but he says little things like I'm hungry what's there to eat, and u tell him and he goes oh I'll have that and then just sits there. So you get up to make it and he does the lamest fake "oh no I'll do it" but you and he know damn well he ain't gonna do it 😂
yes a little help on the days I text him that I haven't been able to do much bc I'm getting BH.. but no he comes home and starts asking me to do stuff for him lol men! @samclark5
@lucyyxoxo_, see he is actually more clean and everything than I am, I can kinda handle the house not being spotless but he has like ocd about it but does nothing to help it, he makes it worse. I will say that he did come home and clean the house for me after I went into preterm labor and made me dinner, but as soon as I was feeling better the next day I cleaned up the mess from dinner. I agree to that I don't work I should do it, but if I'm feeling tired or not so good that day you gotta be a little understanding. But I totally agree! Put your clothes where they go, hang the towel back up after you shower, put your dishes in the sink and your trash in the trash can 😏
@babyleon, I blame his mom. she didn't let him do anything. with me he learned to cook and clean and do his laundry.. but now that I don't work he expects me to do everything. to some point I agree. but not to be walking around the house picking up dirty laundry and picking up dishes . put your clothes in the dirty basket. go put your dish in the sink. offer to help me even on your day off. @samclark5
@lucyyxoxo_, I've only got until 2 or 3. He has an early day today 😩
@babyleon, @lucyyxoxo_ yes girls it's insane. Like seriously just as an example. He makes 2 cup of noodles (he's so picky that he pours the water out after and puts it in a regular bowl, like why dirty an extra dish eat it outta the styrofoam) so he pulls all of the plastic off and the lids and leaves those on the counter and then adds the styrofoam cups to the mess and then walks away and eats it. Or if he pours a can of soda into a glass, the can of soda stays on the counter or in the sink until I throw it away... Like are u for real. And lord knows if it's not clean and dinner isn't made he will be upset when he gets home but did he offer to help me clean it on his day off, nope lol
lmao we're not maids but seems like they think we are sometimes @lucyyxoxo_
lol another thing we have in common. I have until 7 to clean up this mess we all made together over the weekend. and as soon as he gets home he will probably make more mess. @babyleon same here if i left all his things where he left them they would stay there forever. or until he gets mad that I didn't pick them up lol like wtf?
same with my man, he doesn't clean up after himself... if I left everything he leaves where he left it, he'd most likely never pick it up himself 😒
hahahaha...