Why are there these young girls on here TRYING to get pregnant? Like sit down and play with your…

i know and people are applauding it too...like what?? their was one that was 13 years old on here once 😧

It's sad. I mean being a mom is awesome but so is having freedom and getting important things done in your life too @navywifej

ladies my husband's niece I believe (idk it could be his 2nd cousin back home in Guatemala lol but I got lost in translation ) is 18 yeah legal adult but has been with thus guy fir 3 months and wants to run away and be his wife and have his babies and I'm like tell her to facebook me I'll give her the lo down on how it is being 19 and pregnant after being with the man for 2 months. ...shit lol granted yesterday marked our 2nd aniversary and we are married and I do love my little family but god do I miss sleeping when I wanted to by myself and showering when I want lol she'll get scared and go back to mom's @navywifej &@taraduffy79

You can't help others live their life. My little sis was 18, meeting 50 year Olds who told her they were 30...when I would call them out they would convince her I was jealous or hated her...long story short she now has a baby by a crazy, awful guy and is all alone except when he threatens to steal there daughter. But you know, she will be ok. She has gained maturity, has fresh thoughts, and by the time she is 30 no one will ever suspect she was a young mom. And maybe young moms have their own plans? idk, I just know you can't live everyone's life, they won't live like you, and really half the moms on here were teen moms at some point, and most seem to have turned out fine. Maybe they regret not being a kid longer, but again you can't decide when others decide to stop being a kid and receiving kid handouts. @jjsmommyjj711 @taraduffy79 Also, we can't slut shame 13 year Olds on here, same as you can't old shame 40 year Olds pregnant on here. if anyone started yelling at a kid, mom.life admin would stop it immediately @navywifej

This is supposed to be a safe, nonjudgmental place for ALL women, young and old, planning for a child that might be able to conceive one, or who has been one for however short or long a time.

@jjsmommyjj711, yup you gotta let ppl learn on their own most of the time 😩

I know who you're talking about I think lol.. I laugh 😂

Oh I'm not judging I was a teen mom (not on purpose) I'm just saying that it's no walk in the park and I wish these girls had someone pushing them to follow their dreams and then have a child. That's all I'm saying @tahtahme

My point was not to laugh at any woman, mom, ttc or pregnant my point is that she will be afraid of the responsibility or maybe yet she'll take it on like a pro I was pregnant at 18 gave birth at 19 . if I can talk to her maybe she'd want to follow her dreams like @taraduffy79 said @tahtahme

What you are doing is being judgemental and projecting YOUR dreams and regrets onto other people. not everyone wants to be a Dr or model or college grad. that is ok. A lot of young women have been through a lot and only want a family. they should be rewarded with the same respect even when they are very young. I have learned my lesson with this long ago, like I said, with my sister. It is not your place to decide who is right or wrong based on your own views of the world. let others be happy. do you. you all sound like people who are anti abortion. Just leave other women's wombs alone. as long as the sex is legal, let people be. Very, very judgey. @jjsmommyjj711 @taraduffy79

That's fine but this was just my opinion

WTF this had nothing to do with abortion. I'm done. Wow @tahtahme

Like I wanted to be a Montessori teacher and mother, my big sister told me she was disappointed, I could have been a scholar or an athlete blah blah blah. then I went and did it to MY little sister from a different family, oh you want to be a young mom, but you could go do ANYTHING you are a woman hear you roar .and you know what she pretty much heard? "blah blah blah". because that wasn't HER dream. it was mine. Leave people alone smh

If all you saw was abortion, the point went over your head. I was comparing how judgemental you are and how right you think you are in telling other people what to do with their wombs. You are trying to control other wombs due to your own regrets. My advice? Don't.

Wow. You turned this into something so ugly. By giving your opinion doesn't mean it's gonna change mine. No one is telling someone what to do with their "womb". You didn't have to comment if you didn't like my opinion. So if it offends you so much then hop off. I have a lot of compassion and empathy for all types of people. You don't know me so don't you dare tell me how "judgy" I am and how I think I'm so right. Geez leave me alone

I've only wanted to be a wife and mother @tahtahme so your being the one who is judging me I wanted nothing more than to be someone's mom and create my own family. ..maybe eventually go to college but my dream was to have my own family

you just decided our views were wrong how are you in the right to do so...you just assumed we were pushing our dreams on people but here you are pushing your way of life if I wanted to be petty and rude I could be because it's my opinion regardless and I'm definitely not in anyway trying to control anyone's womb expect my own. @tahtahme