I need help how to deal with this.
my boyfriend is going out of state this weekend and we just had baby he is going to be a month old tomorrow. I have three boys very close together. I do everything going clean the house shopping pay the bills get up at night with both the babies (1 yearly an the newborn) ect.. He goes to work an does nothing really he will watch them if I ask him to do it but every night he goes to the gym. I feel like I don't get break an it's not fair that he gets a break I have to do everything I tired and emotional an since we had the baby he has been going out more. I don't know how to tell him or what to tell without crying or him getting mad at me oh and we are trying to save up money but he gets mad at me for spending money. I can't work cause he says how are you going to pay for daycare witch it should be both of us not just on me I didn't are these babies by myself everyone know how expensive it is for daycare. I just feel like crying about everything. I feel stuck but I know I am not.
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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
let's talk about porn.! lol
who's okay with their man watching it and who's not okay?
I myself get mad at my man for watching it when I first caught him when I was 15weeks told him how I felt. & he said its not like I'm cheating on you. but ever since he hasn't done it. I know for a fact because we share a phone lol but i. wouldn't mind watching it with him like how we used to before I got pregnant it made sex fun lol but its still fun just more interesting. just by our self is a no go. lol
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?