My mom is always like I'm not going to tell how to raise your kid yet what is doing telling what to…

My mom is always like I'm not going to tell how to raise your kid yet what is doing telling what to do. " omg you're holding her to much" " you can let her cry" "we never did that with you" "oh my god she is fine" blah blah blah!!

It's 2016 not fucking 1987! Things are different now! Yes when my kid is crying because she is hungry I'm going to attend to her needs. Sorry I don't like to hear my child cry I want to sooth her! And yes I do carry my child why it helps her learn I do something she's doing it to unless I'm cooking that's a no obviously and also because I don't want her on her damn head all damn! And she always talking about how I gave up breastfeeding and all that shit. When she knows damn well that's a touchy subject and that I did everything I could but my child wanted NOTHING to do with the breast and I wasn't going to starve my child and listen to those cries it hurt to hear my child cry like that. They invented formula for a reason!

Atleast I'm actually caring for my child unlike some people out there like wtf. How about say encouraging words and bring me up instead of tearing me down