I know I shouldn't be mad, but I just need to get this off my chest...
I know I shouldn't be mad, but I just need to get this off my chest...
so i go for my 3D ultrasound today, and they tell me im having a girl. i was so disappointed that i started crying and left without taking any of the pictures, my oldest daughter grabbed the CD tho. Yes im happy the baby is healthy and feel blessed to be pregnant, but I have 2 beautiful girls already and was hoping for a boy. This pregnancy was so different than the others, me and hubby already started calling the baby KJ. im really feeling depressed and I know I shouldn't but I really can't help it. Even writing this I feel like breaking down in tears 😭😢😓
Alexus·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I wanna say that the happiness would sink in eventually but I can't because everyone is different & idk your situation . But similarly, when I found out I was having a boy I was extremely disappointed. Because I already have a boy . I just wanted to complete my family . Now I feel obligated to try one more time for a baby girl (I haven't decided that yet) but all in all eventually the excitement of just having a handsome baby to fall in love with all over again just came clinging to me . & I started shopping for his things right away . Just wanted to point out that you are definitely not the only mom who suffers gender disappointment. It is common & it happens . & if you're lucky it'll pass :) so good luck to you Hun ! & congratulations on your baby girl ! 💋💞
Christina·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)
I felt the same way, i cried sooo hard when they said i was having another girl so I completely understand!
Angela·
Мама подростков, ждёт третьего
I wanted a girl and I'm having another boy. I know what you're going through, it'll get easier!