I hate that I don't trust him at all. A year since he cheated, 8 months since I found out. And I…
I hate that I don't trust him at all. A year since he cheated, 8 months since I found out. And I can't even tell myself that it's okay to trust him. I made the decision to stay because he's a different man than he was when he did the unthinkable. And now here I am crying because he wants to go out with the guys tonight. I can't even let him go to hooters because I think he won't be able to not flirt with every moving thing. I don't trust him and it makes me think sticking around is a bad idea. 😢😔
dawn·
if you forgave him for cheating, you need to fully forgive him, otherwise you are going to be paranoid everytime he isn't around. you can't be truly happy without trusting him again. if not maybe you need to let go? I know alot of women who get paranoid when pregnant thinking SO is cheating or entertaing other women, I think it's the hormones.
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Either you work on building trust or move on
Susie·
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I agree with @dawnrose and @babes101116 If you don't trust him it's pointless to stay
Autumn·
i disagree... I do not believe there is such a thing as trusting completely... trust is a funny thing and can change day by day due to certain circumstances... so there may be days where you trust him 100% and other times where you do not trust at all like him going to Hooters... here's the deal though we all make choices in our life and consequences whether good or bad are natural depending on what has happened... there is no reason to make yourself crazy right now because you cannot control what he does anyway... if it makes you uncomfortable for him to go say so be true to your feelings and openly communicate that... if he goes it's on him what he does... you choose how to react if a situation occurs
Heaven·
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@sparklymama, thanks I agree you're totally right there isn't any use in me worrying when he hasn't even walked out of the door
Korahleah Sanchez·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
my husband has never betrayed me and i still cant let him go to hooters. its a man nature.