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Karen
Karen
Многодетная мама (5 детей)

....when he goes to work and comes home and is so caught up in his own bs..... he doesn't help with baby, and complains…

....when he goes to work and comes home and is so caught up in his own bs..... he doesn't help with baby, and complains about my older kids, complains about helping with anything around the house.... walks around with an attitude and makes the whole house feel tense.... I love him but the way he's been lately I'd rather be a single mom... I know I can handle that..... idk how long I can handle him being like this...

I guess it doesn't matter.... stay in the relationship for the kids... bite my tongue and coexist.... :-\

last few months it feels more like a roommate than a fiance anyway.... emotional connection slowly dissipates... only thing in common anymore is our home and baby girl :'(

not looking for advice....just needed to write this for myself.... relationships suck :(

I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean…

I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean 2 rooms and take care of her kids and doesn't understand why her mother in law bitches about why it's not done everyday. Uhm okay. Let me tell you why. You don't anything. Your husband works all day while you sit at home and complain about working and cleaning TWO ROOMS and yet you want a HOUSE. As a stay at home mom and pregnant, supposed to be "taking it easy" I clean a room every day, with kids hanging off my legs. I make sure that the man that works 12+ hours a day has a hot meal, clean clothes and doesn't have to worry about coming home to a dirty house. Is my house spotless? Hell no. But it's not filthy. I do all the shopping, I cook three meals a day but there are days I say fuck it all. Am I super mom? No. Am I perfect? No. Do I always do what I say I'm going to that day? No but I make it a point to try. Am I expected to do it? No. No one expects super mom but they expect you to try instead of sitting on facebook 24/7 complaining. "I'm just so tired of being expected to be super mom and I'm not. My kids drive me crazy to the point i don't want anymore kids because they're a pain in the ass." That was her comment. Then stop having unprotected sex or try harder to prevent it. I tried giving you advice to make it easier but you'd rather make excuses of why you can't do it. I don't know if I'm wrong here or not but I don't expect my fiancé to work all day, every day for more than a week at a time and then come home and clean. I ask him to take out the trash and occasionally help me fold laundry. But I don't ask much else because he provides EVERYTHING.

Okay, mommas I need to vent to someone please.. So my fiance goes to his Co workers house (female) at 1:30pm to leave…

Okay, mommas I need to vent to someone please.. So my fiance goes to his Co workers house (female) at 1:30pm to leave for work, they work about 55 mins from home.. she doesn't have to be there till 3pm.. and he doesn't have to start till 4pm... they usually get off at 1:30am. Now they moved it to 2:00am.. (what he says.) He doesn't get home till 4:00am.... am I wrong for wondering why it takes so long for him to get home??? I want to mention something but I know he will get real defensive about it..and it will start an argument. I don't want to do that. Should I bring it up or keep my mouth shut? Please help mommas. I'm on the erdge of crying bc I feel like he is cheating... but I don't want to think that he would do that..