Question: I was in a relationship with the biological father of my baby and a week after I found out…

I'd tell him straight up. Lol

Personally, I wouldn't rush anything. A pair of lips will say anything...seeing is believing. If he's great with your daughter and shows that he genuinely cares about her, go for it!...but let it be his suggestion. It's great that he's willing to step up

dont rush! let him show u he is really willing to be a daddy first. seeing is believing.

I would tell him it wouldn't be ideal for him to adopt if y'all aren't living together.... but honestly I wouldn't do it unless we were married that's a lot...

soooo you guys been together 3 months and your willing to let him adopt your Daughter ??? doesn't really matter how long you've known them being on a relationship and living together changes things ..

we have been close friends for years. we talked about being together before it just dent happen. I then move to NY for 7 months and moved back to Missouri February 4th with the father of my baby girl. he left in march. my boyfriend and I reconnected, after the biological father left, as friends and started dating soon after. He's been supportive through out the entire pregnancy and everything. He brought up moving in together before but we didn't really discuss it all. but I feel that it would be better to move in and get the living situation sorted out before she's born so that it's easier after she's born because we will already be adjusted to living together

also we live right next door to each other and already stay at each others houses together every night.

I wouldn't. you should be getting married first. that's just a lot to do even if you've known each other awhile

I'm one who kinda goes for things. if you love him and he's been supportive then I would just bring it up and talk to him about it. if he's willing to adopt your baby then if you feel that is what's best I would do that as well. it is a big responsibility on his part but apparently he wants it. I'm in a similar situation but by no means to the point of deciding yet! but if it continues to go well then this new man will adopt my child. I want my child to have a dad and like you said as soon as i found out I was all of a sudden alone. so If I find an amazing man who loves me and wants to be a father to my child I'm gonna go for it.

If you really want to have him adopt the baby I suggest talking about marriage first. Living together is one thing, but having a boyfriend adopt your baby is a huge step. If he's not committed to a life with you FIRST then I wouldn't trust he's committed to being a father figure to your baby. Things seem peachy now but as a couple is together longer things you don't like tend to come out. Especially after living together. Don't rush something so permanent and involving a child if you haven't thought out your plans with this man.