I don't have a baby boy. I would like to know personally how do you moms feel about people treating…
I don't have a baby boy. I would like to know personally how do you moms feel about people treating there sons like girls as in taking them to nail salons and getting pampered ect.... I think it's important for ladies to remember your not raising a little boy. At the end of the day your raising a man. If I have a son I just want to raise him to be the best man he can be. I won't treat him to the same things I would my daughter and vice versa.😕
kenzie .·
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im having a boy . i would never take him to get pampered in a nail salon 😂
Desaray·
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@princesssskxo, yea my cousin does all this stuff with her son like he's getting messages and manicure he's like her little glass doll I get it she loves him to death. He's almost 2years old. I'm afraid he's going to grow up to be some kind of metro sexual. To me that's not okay but to each it's own.
kenzie .·
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i dont agree with it either . i dont judge , but i dont agree if that makes sense . if im going to the salon its PROBABLY to get some me time and braylyn can stay at home with his father and work on the bikes or cars like little boys are supposed to do .
Desaray·
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@princesssskxo, MY POINT EXACTLY!!! I try not to judge but it's just my opinion at the end of the day it's her child to do whatever she pleases. 😏
Rikki·
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I don't do all that stuff for myself so I obviously won't be bringing my son to them when he's Born.
sherry S·
I have 2 sons ages 20yrs.old and 13, they open doors for women &old; people ,They carry whatever shopping bags of groceries from my trunk,they both now how to wash their own clothes since 4th grade.Exactly teach your sons to be good men ,and to be expected to always help in the home you live in ,shit, in ,eat ,shower in ! what i do is take to them to restaurants sometimes together sometime s just me and one of them or to movies,,,that is important
Desaray·
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@nightdaughter, lol I know right
Desaray·
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@nygirl3rdbabymiami, exactly my cousins baby he is only almost 2 years old and he is getting pampered like a princess. Smh
sherry S·
@desi720, i do my own hair ,nails, he s more pampered tham me at 2yrs old kinda strange
Desaray·
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@nygirl3rdbabymiami, lol right
cherie fontenette ·
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If I say how I feel they might remove my page sooooo lol 😂😂
Desaray·
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@babyj0916, go ahead everyone has a right to their own opinion. I don't expect everyone to agree.
cherie fontenette ·
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Okay that's pretty much how little boys turn out to be gay, you don't take your son to the hair salon or nail salon, they have way to many women around, he's young so he might think it's okay to put his hand on his hip, roll his eyes etc., I know sometime women can't find sitters but if you can't just wait until you can little boys do not need to around that at all.
cherie fontenette ·
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I witness this happen that's why I'm so against it 😐
Desaray·
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@babyj0916, I completely understand you and I see it all the time. Not saying that would make them turn gay but even so why encourage your boys to be influenced by generally feminine activities. Then they end up having a family of their own and can't act like the man they are suppose to be can't even screw a nail in the wall or change a tire jeez. Ppl need to stop spoiling these little boys like that.
tiffani gypsy·
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so you're saying taking a little boy to a nail salon is what makes him gay? and having a gay child is unfavorable to you? not trying to start shit, but that's so judgmental and rude.. my boyfriend and i go get pedicures together because it's hygienic and relaxing, he buys special hair products for himself because he needs to look sharp for his job. he also protects our family and provides for us. i guess scruffy, dirty men are the only types of men that are manly to you? i know these are opinions but thise opinions are what hurt a child's feelings and grow resentment and create problems for a child while they are growing up. so fuckin' what if a kid is metro sexual?! so what if he's gay?!!??? love him unconditionally for who he is!
Desaray·
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@tiffanigypsy8, sorry I didn't finish reading your comment because you clearly didn't read mine. Actually read the one right above yours. And then comment your thoughts and opinions thanks😊
tiffani gypsy·
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also a person does not turn gay from things like that, they are gay by the nature of attraction. you can't teach or force a child to be gay. they don't have a choice if they like the same sex or not. nail salons and massages won't teach a kid to be gay...
cherie fontenette ·
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@tiffanigypsy8, next time mention me love I'm not being judge mental at all and how old is your husband? Kids are different they think a lot of stuff is cool for them to do a nail salon is not for a damn baby boy and yes having a child is unfavorable to me but there's nothing that I can do but love him so don't come for me love everybody has their own opinion
Desaray·
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@babyj0916, I definitely could see why your against it.
cherie fontenette ·
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@desi720, yeah why her ass sitting there starting shit she might not want to, I'm not judging no one, I seen this happen so many times, I have gay little cousins and they not teenagers yet because their moms did a lot of girl activities with them
tiffani gypsy·
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mention you? i was speaking in general actually. i'm sorry but before i get too worked up i'm gonna hop off this nonsense. yall can have your opinions and that's cool, like i said i wasn't trying to be rude just give my own 2 cents. i don't want to waste my energy arguing because we obviously have conflicting veiws.
Desaray·
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@babyj0916, 😂 but why she jumping to conclusion every has a right to their own opinion. If my son every wanted to be gay of course I won't be happy at first but I will still love him to death and learn how to deal with that side of him. But I'm never going to encourage him to do girl activities and be girly that is out! Until he is old enough to decide for himself.
cherie fontenette ·
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Exactly! I will love my son no matter what he choices to do with his life, I am not God so therefore who the hell am I to judge. She pissed me off tho no lie.
Desaray·
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@tiffanigypsy8, girl it's all good over here you definitely getting worked up for no reason. Calm down I'm not saying it means a boy will be gay. But I'm saying treat boys like boys and girls like girls. We are different for a reason.
Desaray·
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@babyj0916, she pissed off because she took it way to deep and serious. Goodness ppl can't have a simple debate. I guess she is mad because she was the only one with an opposing argument oh well.
cherie fontenette ·
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Right she was looking for a argument cause I didn't say nothing being judgemental I spoke from what I've experienced if she would of asked she would of known
Desaray·
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@babyj0916, yes girl looking for an argument that was obvious. And then couldn't take it. Ppl be way to sensitive for no reason lol. Smh😏😄
De'Shana Rose·
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This shit outta control a question blew up like this ? Somebody been mad and needed somebody to take it out on
Desaray·
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@mrsrose, 😂😂😂 right
Desaray·
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@mrsrose, so you taking little Dylan to the salon with you to get his mani pedi?😅😆😆
De'Shana Rose·
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Yes if I don't have a sitter 😂😭 boy or girl we in there but Ima also be forced to sit in a barbershop
De'Shana Rose·
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But it wouldn't be to get pampered it would be to sit patiently and wait for mommy
kenzie .·
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oh my goodness 😂 she took everyones opinion way out of contex . its 2016 tho guys , nobody is aloud to have their own thought process and opinions anymore 🙄😂
Desaray·
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@mrsrose, lmao😂😂😂 I can't with you
De'Shana Rose·
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My son / daughter gone know the difference ... Taking my daughter to a barbershop around multiple men while her father or brother get a hair cut won't make her a hoe and my son being gay won't be because he sat in a salon cuz it's also what you teach
Desaray·
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@princesssskxo, yes she did I was a bit confused😳
Desaray·
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@mrsrose, very true
kenzie .·
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like my fiancé sits in there sometimes with me but his feet aint in the water getting scrubbed and his nails all primped up either . smh . a lot of girls on here are on one today .
De'Shana Rose·
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My ex have got a pedi with me minus the polish ... But my son not doing all that until he's able to differentiate
Desaray·
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@mrsrose, lol I see it's crazy for a 2 year old boy to be getting pampered with momma😮
De'Shana Rose·
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Yes but he will read a magazine and accompany me
Desaray·
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@princesssskxo, yea I can see if a man decides he wants to take care of himself like that one day or a wife buys that for her hard working husband I get that to. But my opinion is not about being gay like that other girl assumed it's about what kind of message are ppl trying to send out to their sons? I don't get how mani's and pedi's is showing your sons what it's like to be a man.😕
kenzie .·
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i agree with you totally .
Desaray·
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@mrsrose, lol I was talking about my cousin son. Getting his nails and toes done with momma. But your little man will be good I'm sure
De'Shana Rose·
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@mrsrose, Hopefully I just get a girl
Desaray·
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@mrsrose, yes or girl😌
👑Elaina💋·
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My mom never took any of my brothers to get pampered but my little brother does like a pedicure here and there (he's 17) and his nails to be shiny here and there. I don't think anything is wrong with it. He's still a manly type & straight but just likes to be pampered
Desaray·
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@elainaelise, nothing's wrong with that he is old enough to make his own decisions. I just didn't agree with my cousin taking her 2 year old son to get a mani pedi. But then again it's just my opinion 😌
👑Elaina💋·
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@desi720, oh ok lol I commented before reading through the comments. Yeah no my son will not be getting nails and feet done😂😂
👑Elaina💋·
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At such a young age
Desaray·
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@elainaelise, right yes that's a no no😯