I got into a huge fight with my S/O through text tonight and shit really blew up... now he's up at 4…

At least he's trying to do something to better the situation. I'd let him do his thing for a while, but send him a text and let him know you really appreciate him cleaning like he is, and that you're sorry for fighting. And, whenever he's ready to, to come back to bed with you.

@mrsmccormick, I told him the mess would be there in the morning if he wanted to come to bed. I just got fed up because he quit his job two weeks ago, hasn't done anything around the house since and I've been working 3 jobs. haven't had a day off since before he quit and all he does is sit on the computer and I'm due at the end of the month.. I should've handled it better...

@lexij, it a very easy to understand why you'd be stressed and go off the handle, then. Don't beat yourself up over it. You can't change what happened, but it may be a good thing that you did have this argument so now he has a better grip on reality. I hope everything works out, I'm sure it will. In the end, things always do. ☺

@lexij, it a very easy to understand why you'd be stressed and go off the handle, then. Don't beat yourself up over it. You can't change what happened, but it may be a good thing that you did have this argument so now he has a better grip on reality. I hope everything works out, I'm sure it will. In the end, things always do. ☺

@lexij, I know what you're feeling. I went off on my fiance after I found out his son who was supposed to be watching our 2-year old was being abusive to him and leaving him up by himself while he wanted to be lazy and sleep. everytime I said something about his son not doing what he's told he says "I'll handle it" I got pissed because I don't touch his children and I was tired of them not listening to me and took it out on my fiance. I felt so bad afterwards but he actually understood what I was feeling. I'm still apologizing lol