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missing300user
missing300user
Мама четверых детей

I have a question! Did anyone else have something uncomftable happen to them while giving birth?…

I have a question! Did anyone else have something uncomftable happen to them while giving birth? Here's my story, I wonder if anyone else's doctor had done this, & if so, why?

I went into labor on a day that my doctor wasn't on call, so I had another doctor, which was fine, but to get straight to the point, while I was pushing the nurse told me to listen the the doctor carefully, okay, no problem, once I got my sons head out (my husband even seen this) the doctor told me to stop pushing, & I'm not kidding! I felt him twist and then he literally PULLED my son out! I have NEVER and this was my 4th time giving birth experienced this! And shortly after I didn't even get a warning when he pulled the placenta out! I seriously cry when I think about this, I feel as if this doctor violated me, it felt wrong! When I tell my husband how I feel he tells me "maybe the doctor saw something that we didn't and had to act quickly" but I don't know .. This is just really bothering my mentally ... 😢

Anyone else experience this? Something like it?

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ssdj4

Sidika

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (23 нед.)

report it hun.

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missing300user

missing300user

Мама четверых детей

I haven't done that yet cause I'm looking for some type of possible explanation to why he done that, I haven't even set up my 6 week check up, cause I seriously don't wanna see this guy ever again. @ssdj4

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alexalexa

Alexa

Мама сына-младенца

While I was pushing my OB all of a sudden said stop pushing so I did. I felt some weird pressure and later found out from my husband that my son was coming out elbow first so the doctor needed to push him back in slightly and move his arm out of the way. They should have explained it to you though and prepared you for pulling out the placenta. My doctor definitely notifies me when it was time to pull it out. If you felt violated I would absolutely call and report it.

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aightgoddess

Alina

Мама сына-младенца

Regardless of the reason, the doctor should have narrated or announced what he was doing.

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missing300user

missing300user

Мама четверых детей

@aightgoddess, that is honestly what the problem is, I just don't know why? Which make me wonder 100 different things.

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missing300user

missing300user

Мама четверых детей

@jadalizemommyforever, I know at about 7cm the nurse said, baby boys heart rate would drop during contractions, then proceeded to say "it's not a big drop though, we will keep an eye on it." But then nobody said anything more about it. Did your daughters heart rate do that also?

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missing300user

missing300user

Мама четверых детей

I think that's what I'm going to do. But thanks for your input. @jadalizemommyforever

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jozell01

jozell

Мама сына-младенца

my son had the cord wrapped around his neck so my doctor dug her whole hand and arm in me to twist him to loosen the cord , and my epidural wore off so i felt EVERYTHING

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