My friend and I were having a debate.. I was saying I don't know if I truly want 3 kids. The more…

I have 3 boys and I wouldn't change it for anything in the world 🌍 attention wise I always try and give them equal attention which isn't always easy, yes it does cost more for more kids but it's totally worth it!

See I thought about this an I thought about having just one so hubby and I can give it everything

I'm a teacher and I know for a fact that there is no possible way to give 20 kids the attention you can give 2. haha you can split up the attention between all of them and special days for each of them. It's all about love and you aren't given a set limit of love to give in your lifetime. It just keeps growing and multiplying. Unfortunately, your wallet does not do the same...

I agree with you. The more kids, the less of mama to go around. Plus, I want to travel and go on vacations every year. I want to be able to afford to take my kids places. The more kids, the less extravagant vacations we can take. Also, we started a college fund when I was 20 weeks with my daughter. We plan on paying for our children's college/schooling, so, again... More kids, the harder it will be. I guess for US it comes down to how financially free or tight we want to be.

I've always grown up in a big family. I have 10 nieces and nephews and I still gave each one of them their individual time. Yeah it's different when your a parent but my sister does a good job giving her five kids the time they need and the attention they need. My other sister not so much. Me personally as much as I love kids I wouldn't want more than 3 kids. Not because of giving them attention but just because kids are expensive.

It can cost more money. But I have 3kids and i give them all individual time and I even it out where they know I all love them the same. But 20kids no ma'am I don't agree cause its not easy with my 3 so I know 20kids isn't easy.. I understand what she is trying to say though.. cause I once felt like that also