My husband is so bound and determined to be at my 8 week appointment even though he just started a new job and can't really afford to take off.... He works for a family friend so it's not like he could tell him I'm pregnant and that's why he needs off without it possibly getting to everyone else.... I don't know what to do anymore.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Paternity leave
How long are your husbands or SO getting off for paternity leave? My husband is only getting 1 week off. Then he leaves again. He works in the oilfields so he's always gone. I'm so upset it can't be longer. I'm more than likely having another c-section so it's going to be hard recovering plus handling a newborn and two year old. Makes me sad ?
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?

Ok so my husband and son went to food store while I'm at home with sore back. When he gets back he tells me right near where he parked there was this guy just sitting in his car and looking at him and watching him. Then when they get out of store 20 or 30 mins later the guy is still there watching him, then he holds up his phone like he is recording my husband and son. So my husband plays it off like he does not see what this guy is doing. But he can see that he keeps changing the phone angle ev...
HELP!!! So my boyfriend hasn't came home in 24 hours he called today at 130 pm and said he was gunna be coming home soon. Its 9pm and he isnt home and his phone is off. The friend he was with I called and his phone is also off. I have a feeling they were drinking and his friend was driving. What should I do.? Getting real worried!