got a dilemma... i live a bit far from my mom and sister (being my only family in the country) and i…

got a dilemma... i live a bit far from my mom and sister (being my only family in the country) and i was starting to plan my birth a little... now i cant decide if i give birth where my mom live and stay with her the first couples of weeks knowing i will be surrounded by all her friends that will want to see the baby or if i give birth where i live knowing i will be with my closest friends where it will be more peacefull and go stay with my mom after i gain mor strenght....