so I need opinions... I'm 9 months pregnant with a little girl and have a little boy who's almost 2. I have only ever been with their dad. however he went to minesota 5 months ago almost and decided to cheat on me the entire time, lie and decide he doesn't want to come back because he wants to build his life there, with this girl, anyways our entire relationship has pretty much consisted of him cheating and I have come to terms with us not being together and it's for the best. now my dilema.... I met this guy, wasn't really looking for one or even planning on being with anyone at all BUT he is extremely nice, good looking, mature responsible and has some other really good qualities he also has a son that is 3 perfect since I have a son. I ended up hanging out with him yesterday and things went really great but I feel bad.... like I shouldnt be meeting anyone or hanging out with anyone. he obviously knows I'm pregnant and that I have a kid we have a lot in common.... should I feel bad for hanging out with him or wanting to see him? I feel like it's almost selfish of me and because I have my kids i shouldnt be seeing anyone. I don't plan on jumping the gun and having him start meeting my son and stuff but idk i have no idea how to explain what I'm feeling but idk what to do really.