yeah we still need diapers bottles a stroller a car seat and a baby wrap carrier. but he looks at it as we only need diapers and a car seat right now and everything else is not a necessity therefore no need for a baby shower...

@cubanese, exactly. I think for my next baby I will do that.

Baby showers are sorta the same concept, they're just inviting people to a party too lol Make the registry. If hubby has reservations, just sit down and talk to him. If I needed it no one would be stopping me. It's for the baby, not dad's pride. @cubanese I love the idea of an online shower!

my hubby doesnt want to do that he said that its asking people to buy us stuff. i would love to do that but for some reason he has it in his head that we shouldnt do it :/ its getting to the point where i may do it anyway because we still need a lot of things and we are so tight on money :/

we arent having one because we dont know anyone. we just got stationed down here and are far from family and friends :/

I wasn't going to have one... but when I realized I had nothing I literllay went to the 99 cent store put I decorations together n had a baby shower the next week I got so much diapers u should do one