My toddler has refused naps for the last week. I will try for hours to get him down but if he can't…

My toddler has refused naps for the last week. I will try for hours to get him down but if he can't see me and touch me, he melts down until he can. One day I let him cry it out for 15 minutes and he still refused his nap. He vocalizes that needs a nap but still won't take one. So today I've had enough. I told my husband you're putting him down because I literally do not have the energy to try. 15 minutes later, my husband comes bounding up the stairs with a successful smile on his face. pleeassee resist the bitter..