I don't really have a sex drive but at this point I'm trying to start doing anything natural to soften my cervix, especially since I have bad scar tissue due to a previous surgery. My SO I feel like is avoiding it at all cost. Tried saying he was scared ect. Like dude I'm not here for pleasure, I honesty need your help. But he'll just go jack off in the shower. Pisses me off so frickin bad.
I have. Multiple times. And he hasn't tried initiating anything. We haven't had sex in a month or longer.. And he'll say okay when I bring it up then just goes and takes a shower and has "me time". It's so frustrating. And of course being pregnant and hormonal, I take it personally. @jennatess