sexual frustration is killing me... masterbating only helps so much and my husband is hardly ever…

sexual frustration is killing me... masterbating only helps so much and my husband is hardly ever home cause of either working or job hunting and he stays away at friends houses and I'm over here going bat shit crazy cause I'm not getting my rocks off and I'm not into toys for myself cause it's not as fun as the real thing and I'm on edge and am looking for ways to take the edge off....any tips?