So I have all the clothes washed, put up, house cleaned top to bottom, flowers and garden watered, and dinner made and…

So I have all the clothes washed, put up, house cleaned top to bottom, flowers and garden watered, and dinner made and we have 2 boys ages 2 and 3 and I'm 12 weeks pregnant.... My husband comes in from work throws his lunch stuff and shaker bottle for spark on the counter changes and lays on couch. I'm trying to ask him about his day ect and he is really short with answers... Then I get up and go make plates for the kids, him, and myself for dinner and my 2 year old tells me he pooped and needed his diaper changed I asked my husband if he would go down stairs to get a new box of diapers Bc we were out up stairs. He ignored me so I went and got them and the wipes out of the 2 year olds room and asked him to change him and he threw a huge fit saying that he just wants to relax... I'm sorry but relax when all you do is sit at work on your computer and play games and stuff until another wreck for the city comes in which he usually gets everything processed Monday from over the weekend and has one a day after that and it takes maybe an hour... He text me constantly telling me he's bored and his job is cake ect.. Well id like to relax too I get up when you get up make your breakfast make your lunch ect. I don't go back to sleep start out cleaning end my day bathing the kids and cleaning up dinner ect. And to throw a fit bc I asked you to change a freaking diaper! Ughhh I'm pissed and honestly feel like I could punch his in his face