One of the most frustrating things about Romans's stay in the NICU, is that he has had a countless…

1. Tell them that you want to be part of their rounds and to be called and if not you'll be speaking to your lawyer as a mom of the Nicu you speak for your child there's been several times I've went head to head with nurses about my daughter and I've learned sometimes they forget to write stuff down so I do it for them! Ask the stupid questions like what's his pp what's his rate (if on oxygen) ask about how his breathing is doing even without oxygen learn your child's normals like normal stat numbers, figure out his awake times those are important bc they'll teach you his normals are different when he's awake and when he's alseep ask about his blood gas and what the exact number is. Ask if the dr has anything new for him and what is the most detailed update there is. Even if it seems small and stupid remember it all. Tell them you want a more common nurse for your child once you get that and demand it tell hm you want a shorter in and out nurse list you want more common nurses repeatedly so they learn your child and can take better care of your child speak with as many people as you can about this also you have all rights to request a different hospital and they cannot turn you down for it either unless your child will not hand that "stress" to well.