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I'm so excited to have a fifth baby! Lol. I really want six at the end of the day, but we will see. I still haven't told my husband that I'm pregnant. I'm so scared for his reaction 😏 how can I ease into telling him? With our first he was there when I took the test, second I put our three month old in a onesie that I made and it said "big sister" (she was preemie, so still tiny and in newborn clothes it was ironic), our third I was shocked and told him while he was in the shower..he punched the wall 😞 our fourth I took him to BWW and had the waiter bring him a "prize" for being randomly selected as a winner.. (I made a gift with a Broncos onesie wrapping the pregnancy test and made it look all cute). He was speechless and it didn't dawn on him for a good thirty seconds that I was pregnant Lol. We now have a 4 yo, 3yo, 2 yo, and 2 month old.. This one (based off my track record) will be born when our youngest is 9 months old. I take care of them pretty much solo, and he runs our company. It works great . He is so bipolar about having another baby.. I know I want two more, and would rather get them all out of the way now so they can be close in age. Last weekend (knowing there was a possibility I could be pregnant) we got into a huge fight, and he told me he was going to get a vasectomy because we are "ruining his life". Sometimes he wants us to get pregnant, and other days he's so against it it breaks my heart. Anyways.. That aside.. I'm scared for his reaction. I was thinking about waiting until the ultrasound to tell him, but he was pissed at me last weekend for hiding stuff from him (long story--previous post). What would you guys do? Like how would you tell him? No negative feedback please.. I realize this isn't the most ideal situation, and need support more than anything. ❤️
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forever223
forever223
@mimi602, people think women like us have a screw loose! Lol. Some women are born to work outside of the home, and some women are born to be a mom. I was always asked what I wanted to be when i grew up, and my response was to be a mom. Never had the desire to work outside of my home, never had the desire to start a career. I tried that road.. I went to college, and I worked (gymnastics instructor, driving instructor, and assistant) I hated being away from my babies.. I want to be the one to raise them, and teach them, and I am so blessed to have the means to do it!
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forever223
forever223
@lucyyxoxo_, of course I'm thinking about our relationship as well. We have been together for 8 years, and married almost six, and Have always made our relationship priority over all of my wants. Like I said, he is bipolar about it. Im thrilled about welcoming another baby, but I'm honestly scared shitless about having another so soon. I'm not one to let the world know it though--he is. I've offered to go on birth control, but he doesn't want me to. I have discussed with him getting a vasectomy, and freezing sperm at a sperm bank that way there's no "uh ohs" but we still have the option to have more, and he doesn't want to do that either. I really think the initial shock of having another baby is what gets to him.. If he were against having more, he would do more to prevent it. Im not the type of woman to force my husband to do anything that may jeapordize our relationship no matter how bad I may want something. Thanks for your feedback :) sorry for going off, just don't want you or anyone perceiving the situation as something it's not.
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lucyyxoxo_
lucyyxoxo_
I might be the only one to say this , but if you are worrying about his reaction on your 5th child maybe thinking about the 6th is a bad idea. you don't want to lose your relationship with your husband trying to juggle 6 kids. don't forget about the 2 of you. good luck and I hope he's just as happy about this baby like he was with the rest!
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mimi602
mimi602
u go momma I want 6 too lol I'm on baby #2 but I have 4 step kids so I might just have one more I really want twins lol
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forever223
forever223
@maleahsmommy, thanks :)
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maleahsmommy
maleahsmommy
That's a good idea! I think you should do that. Hopefully he takes it well. Good luck girl!
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forever223
forever223
@maleahsmommy, lol. That is definitely the plan. He is out of town right now, so I'm hoping he misses the kids and me a little bit lol. usually he's in a really good mood after he hasn't seen us for a while (sad I know, but absence makes the heart grow fonder). He is super busy, so we haven't talked much at all. I was thinking about making him a nice dinner when he comes home, and setting it up to be obvious like with the high chair all set up for a new baby or something.. Idk. I don't want him to feel ambushed.
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maleahsmommy
maleahsmommy
I would say catch him in a good mood for sure! Lol
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