what do u ladies think about this- ive considered not telling anyone (fam or friends) when i go into…
what do u ladies think about this- ive considered not telling anyone (fam or friends) when i go into labor bc i don't want people coming to the hospital before she even arrives. i know my mom and MIL would be pissed.. what do u think? is that selfish of me? is it something lots of moms do? my friend asked if she could come in the room while i was in labor but my true answer was NO. when i actually start pushing i only want my man there. i don't want anyone back there but my husband. IF i change my mind in the moment then that's one thing but why do people expect to be a part of this moment?
masonaverysmommy·
Мама сына-младенца
I think it's not about anyone but you, your baby, and man.. No one else HAS to be in there. Do what's comfortable for you. 😘 they will get over it once they see that baby's face.
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I went through the same thing. My mom was furious and tried to make it all about her, which is exactly why I didn't have here there in the first place. I really didn't want my BF there either, as we were having problems, and he was a total disappointment. But I figured if anyone deserved to be there it was him, and I am happy he was able to cut the cord and see his baby as soon as she was born. To be honest it's such a beautiful moment and I think it's the most perfect time to be selfish, the moment your baby is born is the most joyful moment of your life and you deserve to have that all to yourself 😘
savana·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
No i just want my bf there as well. I wanted my mom there to but my sister is having a baby at the same time and she lives closer to her so thats where my mommas gonna be. Everyone else who wants to be there can sit in the waiting room. To me ita supposed to be a beautiful bonding moment between mom/dad/and baby
Chelsea·
В ожидании первенца
I plan on not telling anyone I'm in labor until after I've had my son and then they will be allowed to visit after an hour minimum, I may decide a little longer as the time gets closer
Ashlynn Sloan·
В ожидании первенца
The only one allowed in my hospital room the entire time we are there is my husband. I don't feel selfish at all, as new parents we need to bond with our child before anyone else does.
Christina ✨·
В ожидании первенца
Just say "sorry, things got crazy quickly and I was in pain. We completely spaced on calling anyone until after she was out and things calmed down." 😁👌
Megan Kerr·
В ожидании первенца
thats exactly what im doing and ill call people after when im in a room and ive had the time i want with my son because as soon as i start calling people everyones family and friends will know hes here and i dont want a bunch of people showing up to the hospital without me even knowing they're coming.