So my father in law keeps telling us to not feed out son his puffs and that if he really wants them, he will get them…

So my father in law keeps telling us to not feed out son his puffs and that if he really wants them, he will get them himself. No he won't. He is just starting to learn how to. It is a work in progress. You have to teach him how to do stuff not just make him do it. He almost yelled at me when I said we have to do it or he won't eat. Like ok have my child taken away because you don't think I should feed my year old kid the way I know he needs. Ugh asshole!!!