since having scarlett my anxiety has hit the roof. I suffered with it before but it's now going…

since having scarlett my anxiety has hit the roof. I suffered with it before but it's now going nuts. my partner doesn't understand what it's like and that I'm trying to fix it and not make life hard for him or his family by letting it effect there relationship. I just get attitude from him when I say that my anxiety playing up about a certain thing. or that I want scarlett close for a bit and not let anyone hold her for a bit. I don't know how to explain it to him because he's never experienced it. he says that I need to talk to him about it but when I do he just gives me attitude. I'm trying my best to fix it and stop it happening. I no longer know what to do to try make everyone happy.