why is it so hard for me to let family watch my baby? I mean my Husbands aunt and cousin have…
why is it so hard for me to let family watch my baby? I mean my Husbands aunt and cousin have watched her before when she was younger, and it was no big deal. But my in laws are here for her birthday and they want to watch her for a few hours, and I don't even feel comfortable letting them. They are great people, I just idk..idk what it is. And now I'm here feeling bad and confused and looking like the bad guy because I don't know how to let my baby go. 😢 I guess I keep making excuses up as to why I don't feel comfortable like...I don't know if I have enough milk pumped for the week, or they don't know how to work the stroller or the car seat. 😳 What is this crazy un easy feeling? I should be ok with them watching her right? This isn't their first grandchild. But why do I want to cry. 😢
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thats how i feel all the time about leaving my baby with anybody and its because i just know my baby best! what if theirs something wrong and hes crying and crying i feel like im the only one that know how to take care of the problem lol idk thats how i feel
Krystale·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@navywifej I think that's what it may be for me too. but here I am crying and my husband is upset at me BC his parents came down to spend time with her and want to give me a break, and I'm over here like...hmmmm idk.😣 ugh I don't want to be the bad guy. I'm all over worried about what could happeb, or what they are going to do or where they will go. 😖
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just give it a day and see how everything goes momma :) we need breaks too! its hard for us we're there 24/7 especially if youre a stay at home mom 😧
Krystale·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@navywifej thanks mama. We do need breaks. I am a SAHM too.