Need honest thoughts on this. At the beginning of the year hubby and I set a goal to get our debt to…

noooooooooooooo lol

I wouldn't do it

@mrsnewman10511, I told my husband worst case yes we get into the house but is it worth me not wanting to do stuff whenever his mom is around? He is a little naive his response was or it could still be like it is.

just kinda have to respect each other and she has to give you guys space and let u be the parent to your child with decisions and u know just give u guys yalls privacy and space. we were in a same situation we lived with my husband dad for few months. it was great it helped us and he loved seeing his granddaughter

@mommytoveralang, I feel like if everyone goes into this with everything on the table like you mentioned above it could possibly work idk I'm really torn

@savanahr777, yeah its a very hard decision, i think that if u decide that if u dony wanna go places with her im sure she would respect your decision atleast id hope she wouldn't, i didnt always do things with my husbands family when they did stuff its hard to take the baby places and alot of work, if my husband choose to take her that was great for it gave me a break from baby and was able to breath and take care of my self or take a nap or whatever the case was.

she would not wouldn't*

My hubby wanted to do the same thing and I was completely against it, and I'm glad we didn't his bro moved in there with his gf and we both see now it would have been a huge mistake. Take your time and really consider all the pros and cons. For me it was a hell no!

@mommytoveralang, I mean do this after we move out right now we see them at least once a month and do family stuff together bowling, water parks, dinners. I'm afraid that if mess up our relationship I won't want to do stuff like that with them.

@savanahr777, thats good that yall see them once a month now. i agree with @kandice_stedman86 you should consider all the pros and cons, i had a great experience and my relationship with his parents is still great. but its a definitely a hard choice and a decision to make. me and hubbs right now are trying to get a house and were in between of staying in the apt and finish the leasea or moving in with my dad totally understand what your going through

@savanahr777, right bc your relationship is different when money and bills come into the picture. Also get all the info up front, how much they expect yall to pay, household chores etc so there is no surprises. It can so work for some people. @mommytoveralang seems like she had a good experience with it.

@kandice_stedman86, great points that was my first question after I expressed my concern about our relationship.