My boyfriend and j were talking about getting engaged and when he'd want to.. He then asked me would I want it to just be a day about the engagement or would I be okay with sharing it with a special day... I immediately say by that question if you are thinking on kysons (our son) birthday heck no I want his birthday to be his day and all about him....that is 8 months away last time we talked about it he said if we were together in 3 years!!!! I'm tickled pink that he's been thinking about doing it a lot sooner! 😊😊😊😊