I have never felt so alone and disconnected . i just found out im pregnant . 6 weeks along and my…

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How is his career over because your pregnant? He isn't pregnant, he can still work...he can still do everything he's already doing..like wth. Maybe he should have thought about that before he let his millions of babies out inside of your body, you don't have to get an abortion, and your not ruining anyone's life by keeping your baby, you bringing a life into the world.

Thank you . I tried to explain that to him but to him its all gunna change

If he wants to be a pos let him walk out! Girl you be happy! This baby is a blessing! It doesn't ruin your life. When he grows up he will also realize that. And ruining his life? In all possible ways you are making his life better. And if he didn't think so he shouldn't have let the kids out to play... Smh!

i went tru this with my bf with our 1st baby... give him sometime hes probably just scared and dont know how to tell you

He is scared and i told him so am i . He is just super negative all the time . I just want to focus on having a healthy pregnancy and baby and all he wants to talk about is how his life is over its just ridiculous .

I agree with @babygirl10-11 he's probably scared! He may come around and it sucks that Un the meantime you've gotta deal with that shit but a lot of guys go back and forth being happy and pissed off about it.

@michellevaldez4750, yeah it does suck but i really want my family to work so i guess i have to stick it out . i just want to talk to him about the baby without him being mad that im happy about it and saying im thinking about this all wrong .

yea the same with my bf he even made me a apt to get a abortion i literally kicked him ... but after a few weeks of realizing i was keeping MY baby regardless of what he said he came around and now hes the best father ever to our 3 kids

I hope he does come around. my husband is still not very happy about this pregnancy and I've only got a month left! sometimes it takes until they are born smh. we bond right away most of the time but guys are definitely different

This sounds exactly how my boyfriend sounded when we first found out I was pregnant after dating for only 4 months. Mind you, he is only 17, 16 when we found out, and was scared shitless of the idea of having a kid up until the day I had him. He wanted me to get an abortion, and I had always thought I would if I had gotten pregnant, but I couldn't go through with it. I felt really connected to me kid already, so one morning I told him I was picking him up so we could talk about what to do, and when I got him, I told him I was keeping it (I was 6ish weeks so no gender yet lol) because I knew I would regret getting an abortion and would end up resenting him for it if I did. I made it clear to him that since we had a healthy relationship, if he wanted to stay and work through things, then I'd obviously love to make things work, but I didn't NEED him in my life and that he could potentially be a very temporary part of my life and I would much rather have a kid that I love unconditionally and vise versa. After telling him that, I felt instant relief from all of my anxiety and panic attacks that I had been having. I felt so much better about myself and I knew that I had made the right decision in telling him those things. And here I am 10 months later, still in the same healthy relationship with a 2 week old and I'm convinced that he is more attached to his son than I am at this point haha they adore each other. Idk if that helps, but I'm pretty confident that most people know what the right thing is for them personally, and everything works out the way it should in the end :)

@makayleigh, thank you for sharing and im very happy it worked out for you . I am going to wish for the best and not stress just focus on me and baby .