It's really annoying when your MIL keeps saying how healthy and how good I look at this weight. Yes…

i agree, momma. I'm up to 153 and I was 130 at 5'9 I feel like a damn amazon woman!

It's annoying!! Lol

mine does the same thing but she likes how are you dealing with this mentally and I'm like thanks for asking but that's not something I want to talk to you about.

Funny. My mom kept telling me I looked fat. I was literally gaining 1lb a week till 35 weeks then didn't gain anymore. I was all belly. And she would tell other people that I was looking fat too.

ive gained 26lbs. im 37 weeks and i had a little asain lady tell me im too fat for my height. im 5'8 and originally 175 bc of muscle. like girl bye this is my 10 months to finally splurge & idc what you have to say!

@owenjacesmama, that's crazy lol. I mean I've gained 45 pounds in the 38 weeks. Which is a good bit. But it's all went to my belly, butt, and thighs. I've always had thicker legs... But like she's being crazy to think I'll stay heavy.. I've always been very active.. I've ridden horses for 15 years.. And 98% of the time, I rode bareback, and I liked to go fast.. So my body was all muscle lol and after I have my baby, and we move, I'm getting another horse lol. I was underweight when she met me, due to me doing Coke for 2 months daily 😣😣 but I drastically changed my life, and don't even smoke weed anymore. Or ever want too lol. So she never seen me "healthy" 😒 but for a 5'6 person, 125-130 is healthy. Lol

I weighed about 120ish here. Lol I was skinny, but healthy looking lol

And then this is recent. Lol I'm all belly, and thick legs.

We can not help how are bodies are made. We are all unique to size fat and muscle. I'm 5'9" and weighed 135 pre pregnancy built like a tom boy lol. That's after I battled a bad Heroin addiction and gained 25lbs. I must say I looked so much better right before I got pregnant actually had some boo age and butt!!than last year when I got clean. I have also battled my fast metabolism for years. Instead of trying to lose weight like most woman do or complain about excessive weight, I was always trying to gain weight and complained how I couldn't gain. I'm also on medication now so I've only gained 10lbs the whole pregnancy and most of it being at the beginning and am now gestational diabetic. Who would've thought. We make mistakes and we learn from them. If you love your body no body's opinion is anything but their opinion. In one ear and out the other. My own mother used to make comments about how I needed to "tone" my body. If you are happy love and respect and own what's yours so be it. @klove2016 by the way you have an amazing body and love the baby bump!! Girl or boy??

@lindsey89, I agree 100% ❤️ we live and we learn. I'm having a girl 😊

@klove2016, idk why but I bought you were!! 🚼🎀🍼 pregger instant lol. You look good though. Don't let people take away from this blessed time. I had to block my own mother and sister a few months ago because they were just so negative and telling me how I should be doing this that and the other. I'm doing what's best for me and the negative added stress isn't good for anyone especially being in recovery. You have to do what's best for you not everyone else. I'm due right around the time I overdosed and almost died 2 years ago. Talk about almost losing life and now give life. Crazy where life takes us. I wish you nothing but the best in this crazy ass world!! 💜💕🤗