my mom tells me right now not to mention how i felt of the day i had my son because i can hurt some people feelings. It wasn't their attention to make you feel that way. im like wow mom now i can't say how felt it was horrible seeing everyone in the recovery room after i had the c section. wow apparently im hurting people feelings. just because i was telling my aunt that was there with my uncle. she was right it felt horrible. she's like i felt bad afterwards i can't tell but your loving uncle wanted to be their to support you. im like thanks and it did felt bad. worst feeling ever definitely next time if i have another baby not telling one until the next day or two.
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@shelbyjo, i had my son nine months ago. you know how people ask you how it felt after having your baby. yeah i did not expect people to be in the recovery room before they put me in the actual room. im like wow first time having a baby worst experience. i like it when people were gone and it was just me and so and our son.
Sorry to hear! That's exactly what I did I waited until my daughter was born to tell anyone I was in labor except like 2 people besides my husband and mom, it was the best decision I ever made it made most of my family mad and they refused to see her even now but I could careless it was what was best for our family and I'll do it all over again whoever Doesn't like it will get over it or just not be apart of our lives.
Yeah I can imagine especially after a c section! I would be furious! If asked if just start to say well it was nothing that you had expected, that you had wanted some alone time as a family first. To me people are always going to be upset with what you say one way it another if just say how you felt even if it hurts other people's feelings because that was your first few moments that you wanted alone and you didn't get that courtesy so why be nice about it?