Having a job that let's you bring your baby to work sounds like the dream, but it is really taking a…
Having a job that let's you bring your baby to work sounds like the dream, but it is really taking a toll on me mentally. Trying to do everything I need to do to keep the office in order while hearing my son cry for me (and I am not a fan of the cry it out method) and not being able to go to him because I have a million things I need to finish is so hard. On top of that my baby is EBFand will not take a bottle (I have tried about 10 different brands). But I can't stop working because I'm the only one working and my husband and son depend on me. I can still barely provide. I cry constantly. I feel like such a failure to my family. I can't breathe. The stress is beyond belief.
Aashley Attmore·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
Awww , hubby can't look after baby while u r at work ?
Patricia Miles·
Мама сына-младенца
@babyattmore, he is in school over full-time... and my son will not eat from a bottle.
Shannon Catullo·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
Oh man I'm sorry hopefully soon he will eventually take one have your hubby keep trying .. Or someone else other then you. It's hard for a baby to take a bottle from mom some times especially if they smell you .. Just keep trying once a day hopefully he can learn ??
Patricia Miles·
Мама сына-младенца
his school is 2 hours out of town and Sudays I have to be at church with only one car. so that leaves Saturday and he wouldn't bring in much to make a difference. @lp1988727 I do try to have other people feed him but he just can't latch to a bottle. I also have a terrible time pumping. I don't have any pain from his latch, but pumps cause so much pain for me. I have very little milk right now stored in my freezer. like 20oz.
Patricia Miles·
Мама сына-младенца
@10yearslater0205,
Patricia Miles·
Мама сына-младенца
@lp1988727, I'm not trying to have a pity party or anything. I love my family. I'm just stressed. I haven't left my baby's side at all. I panic at the thought of it. Sometimes I think I will go do something without him and then I step out the door and burst into tears and come right back in to hold him.
Tiara·
Maybe you should look in to free therapy
Patricia Miles·
Мама сына-младенца
@princesshope, i have thought about it, but I don't know when I would have time.
Tiara·
Maybe you can find one who does phone calls whatever you do make sure you talk to someone metal health effects physical health and you need to be at your best for the baby
Patricia Miles·
Мама сына-младенца
@princesshope, I'm the worst about admitting I have a problem. I rant it out cry for a while... then go on my way.
Tiara·
You're not alone with having trouble admitting it