i know i may or may not get a lot of crap over this but... to all the women who keep posting how…

i know i may or may not get a lot of crap over this but... to all the women who keep posting how they are married or in a relationship with someone that isn't treating them good, and pretty much disrespecting them but wanting to make it work just because you want to keep your family together. i get that but in all honesty maybe it's not such a good idea to stay with someone because your kid/kids. having a broken relationship does NOT make you happy and your children will grow up seeing/feeling that. if your relationship is doomed. leave... you can be great parents still. YOU also matter too. i don't know why women think it's best for them to stay just because of their kids. i would leave my husband in a heartbeat if he wasn't as committed as me to have a solid and healthy relationship. i love my son but i also love myself and wouldn't feel the need to be in something toxic like that. happy parents equals happy kid.