Ugh I just hate when my SO and I fight because he will always talk down to me and say things knowing…

because you haven't set the respect standard... you need to let him know that his behavior is unacceptable... do not accept that treatment for your reality

I have and he says he'll work on it, but we always end up here. The good out weighs the bad but he's the only one working and he's stressed but it's not right. I've told him. I'm just afraid of when baby girl gets here. I don't want her to see him talk to me that way ever... @sparklymama

hmmmm well if your staying you may have to just set the rules of engagement... for example you're fighting and he says something mean and hurtful... you do not continue the conversation... you stop look him dead in the eye and tell him "I'm not continuing this conversation because you have chosen to say mean and hurtful things when you can be respectful I will gladly finish having this discussion" then turn around and walk out of the room... when he tries to engage again simply ask " are you ready to have a discussion while remaining respectful?" do not have any discussions until he can answer yes

however I will also say this because I don't play that shit ever

Yeah he's at work and I haven't been responding to him since and he's just getting more angry. I'm not trying to make him out to be a horrible person because he's not its just when he gets mad he doesn't think. It's just not fair, I would never say things to deliberately hurt him. @sparklymama

Oh and now he's deleted me off face book. What petty ass shit.

I would text him the same I'll talk to you when you can be respectful... I do not interpret this to be you making him out to be a horrible person... however I also do not believe in justifying his bad behavior it is what it is... he is acting disrespectful during an argument... i would simply say set the rules of engagement and do not accept that treatment ... no need to justify or explain